First of all, shit dude that enclosure is all kinds of awesome. I'm a Skyrim fan myself
Also I have to second the recommendation about being very methodical with everything, I have experience and I still take the time to check every single joint with an ohmmeter. It takes forever sometimes but I can always be guaranteed or at least reassured that it will work the first time (by reducing or eliminating errors of my own accord). Case in point, I just finished building myself a mechanical keyboard, with a free-air matrix that involved a hilariously large amount of soldering. It took me a few days or work to finish but it looks super good and it worked flawlessly the first time. That's the kind of performance you should be aiming for.
Also regarding the melt temperature, what kind of solder are you using? I'm a fan of eutectic solders because they are significantly easier to work with than the common 60/40 stuff. I recommend 63/37 or some silver-bearing solder if you want something good that is a little easier to melt. I don't use a station but my iron is 35W (if anyone knows offhand what the corresponding temperature is).
Through all the worry and pain we move on